We alwaysblame our past for our present situation

SO many people blame their single status on the people that they've dated or been in relationships with, rather than sincerely examining the one in the mirror.

Before expecting the people that you encounter to be real with you, make sure that you're being real with yourself about any healing, forgiveness, bitterness, or selfishness that needs to be dealt with, prior to receiving someone to complement you on the journey of love.

You want perfection, have you been perfected.
You want handsome, are you beautiful.
You want nice, are you kind.

Be honest with yourself, can you stay with you if you were to be in a relationship with someone like you? Can you?